I'm in a talkative mood today to expect allot

you can either jump and answer my question or read through my thoughts and then tell me what you think?
Recently I started discussing an interesting topic with a fellow deviant ~
bs4life4show. predominantly it was about how to define a culture or country. our own or other? to be more specific he asked the question "How do you define being an Egyptian (whether a male or a female)?"
Now lets take a few steps back, recently ~
doniaem(check her work out) posted a journal
[link] containing quotes from a book she is currently reading about the modern Egyptian girl in her twenties. the quotes where very funny, true and interesting! although one in particular annoyed me greatly:
"007 might love a smart girl with a dash of chutzpah; 00Egyptian would much rather opt for the pretty little quiet thing in the corner with the right daddy, thank you very much."The fact that the writer uses the word "chutzpah" in the above paragraph reveals that she is an outside observer and not a "local", further searching led me to the writers Bio. where within the first two lines she claims to be "born and bred in England".
The point I'm to make is that how can you dare to analyse a culture/society when you obviously not apart of it?
Anyway ~
bs4life4show read what I had to say and asked me a very simple question "How do you define being an Egyptian (whether a male or a female)?" now I could not be specific about the Egyptians because I'm Jordanian but I knew if I looked at the underlying intention of the question I could begin to answer it.
I started by thinking about how I define my own society and quickly realised that I instantly jumped to the negatives; the driving, the miserable nature, the horrid treatment of time and appointments...
so I decided to look up a basic definition so that I might be able to use it as a stepping stone:
"Culture is the arts and other manifestations of human intellectual achievement regarded collectively
-a refined understanding or appreciation of this
-the customs, arts, social institutions, and achievements of a particular nation, people or other social group: people from many different cultures
-the attitudes and behaviour characteristics of a particular social group!"When I tried to apply it to Jordan I could not clearly define it, possibly because of its young age(around 60) and because of the large number of refugees and small number "indigenous people" (take the term very loosely) which results in a lack of unity. but this is a completely different topic that can be talked about in volumes.
The definition did turn my thoughts to how I define other cultures and I came to the satisfying conclusion that defining a culture (for me) is in the small details; their actions, their accents, their history, their beliefs and traditions, and also their representation stereotypical or otherwise in the global media.
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bs4life4show replied and expressed that his definition was any people within a particular border, despite any and all differences that they might have, I cannot really accept this because so many countries come to mind where many cultures exist within its borders(EX: Tibet and China), and lets not forget internet culture that transcends all physical locations.
I'll end this journal with an old Arabic Proverb : "whomever lives among them for 40days becomes one of them".
Any form of comment is welcomed
